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The NuNomad with Psychologist Dr. Carmen Bolanos
JA:
Dr. Carmen, you were such a wonderful life coaching mentor for DCB:
Sure, Jeanine (and let me add it was a pleasure having you as a
JA: What got you interested in the NuNomad? DCB:
One of the reasons I became a coach in the first place was my
JA: Can you tell us about a NuNomad success story that stands out to you? DCB:
Honestly, I have met so many amazing people living nomadic lifestyles
JA:
What are the implications that the NuNomad has on Green living or
a DCB:
Im so glad you asked this because it is one of our passions.
I think we
JA:
How have advances in
technology aided the NuNomad? Are there are any DCB:
You know, technology is advancing faster than I can keep up with it
and
JA: Is there anything else that you would like to share about The NuNomad? DCB:
Youll find a lot of sites up now that are also promoting a nomadic
JA: How can we get started with The NuNomad? DCB:Become
an active part of our community! We are easy to find. You can
JA:
Thank you so much for
your time Dr. Carmen. I know this interview DCB: Thank you for the opportunity!
Carmen
Bolanos, Ph.D., is the co-founder of NuNomad Ventures and ~SDS~
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For a free consultation please complete: http://tinyurl.com/p74bls and return via email: jeanine@simplydivinesolutions.com for a free and truly no obligation session! Compassion 101 by Dr. Jeanine copyright 2007
"Because they are human, they suffer. Those who have a better story, a "healthier" childhood, a more impressive résumé, better looks, connections, or education, suffer. Those who are less fortunate than "me" also suffer. Those who are able or good suffer as do those who are weak or mean." (Laurence Boldt The Tao of Abundance 94)
Often, it is easier for us to have compassion for ourselves than others because we know where we are coming from in life. We understand our own point of view, values and belief system. We also know all of the nuances that went into that decision we made that didn't turn out so well. We know how painful that situation really was and how hard we worked to get beyond it. When we look at others and their situations, we may forget that they also have been at the effect of many unseen circumstances in their lives. In fact, what appears to be just pure selfishness or even stupidity to us may be the result of a myriad of factors that someone is dealing with and trying their best to negotiate. One way to move beyond judgment and into compassion is to remember that suffering is universal. We have all known suffering. If we assume that a sister is suffering and we start our relationship or even the conversation on a note of compassion, we have cut to the chase so to speak. We have already moved beyond many barriers to intimacy. There was a poignant Asian parable I once read about a woman who was devastated by the death of her child. In grief, she asked her spiritual teacher/coach how she might go beyond the burden of her suffering and grief. The coach suggested that she go from house to house and find a family that has not suffered deeply. She realized through her exercise that she is not alone in her suffering. She had not been singled out by God. Suffering is universal. She was still grieving at the end of her assignment, but she was comforted deeply in knowing that she was not alone. She also was giving a coping model through her experience; others survived, and if she chose, she would also. I often think of human beings as having three identities: public, private and secret. I remember an example from the 80s movie The Big Chill. For those of you who didn't see it, a handful of college friends reunite for the funeral of their dear college friend. Glen Close's character, Sarah Cooper, appears to outsiders to be someone who is strong and steadfast at the time of their reunion (public face). With her most intimate group of friends she reveals some deeper and more private feelings about the death (private face). Later, we see her crying alone in the shower, obviously devastated by the loss of her friend. This also helps the audience to gain the insight that the relationship with her deceased male friend was probably profoundly intimate (secret face). It doesn't take a doctor of life coaching to help us recognize that it can be a rough world out there. Even if we never see someone's secret face, let's remember that they have one. To not acknowledge this might originate from callousness, naiveté or some other form of denial. In the end, we hurt only hurt ourselves if we don't embrace compassion. After all, when we extend compassion, we are one of the beneficiaries.
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